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April 27, 2026

Season 3 Wrapped: Time To Reflect and Look Forward | How To Be Patient

Season 3 Wrapped: Time To Reflect and Look Forward | How To Be Patient

As we wrap up Season 3, Margaret and I are looking back at the long journey from our first late-night recording sessions in 2025 to where we are now: mid-fellowship for Margaret and fourth year for me. This season wasn't just about "yapping"; it was a masterclass in learning how…

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April 20, 2026

Existential Psychotherapy Part 4: Meaning | How To Be Patient (Ep 060)

Existential Psychotherapy Part 4: Meaning | How To Be Patient (Ep 060)

In the final episode of a four part series on existential psychotherapy, Margaret and I take on the problem of meaning. This one is a little different that the other problems of man but they all intertwine like a single cable when it comes to living your life. Join us…

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April 13, 2026

Ask a Psychiatrist: The Grab Bag Special | How To Be Patient (Ep 59)

Ask a Psychiatrist: The Grab Bag Special  | How To Be Patient (Ep 59)

Margaret and I decided to tackle the questions that have been circling our DMs, including the controversial continuum of harm reduction, where does "good enough" care end and "enabling" begin? We also touch on the complexities of diagnosing autism across genders, the "stolen valor" of internet neuroscientists, and why I’m…

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April 6, 2026

Giving and Receiving Feedback with Paul Tran | How To Be Patient (Ep 58)

Giving and Receiving Feedback with Paul Tran | How To Be Patient (Ep 58)

I’m flying solo for most of this one while Margaret is off saving dolphins (or just finishing a hospital admission ), but I’ve brought in a heavy hitter to help me tackle one of the most awkward parts of medical training: feedback. Paul Tran, the creative force behind Alimentary School,…

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March 30, 2026

Coffee, Tea and Dementia | How To Be Patient (Ep 57)

Coffee, Tea and Dementia | How To Be Patient (Ep 57)

In this journal club episode, we break down the recent findings from a landmark (in my opinion) study on the associated risks between caffeine consumption and dementia risk. Spoiler alert! More coffee might actually be protective against dementia; however, we need to take these findings with a grain of salt…

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March 23, 2026

Speech and Psychiatry with Speech Talk’s Emily and Eva | How To Be Patient (Ep 56)

Speech and Psychiatry with Speech Talk’s Emily and Eva | How To Be Patient (Ep 56)

A topic that we were silent on during our Aphasia episode was the importance of Speech-Language Pathologists in the care of patients with Aphasia and, more broadly, throughout different types of care for patients in the hospital, in rehab, and outpatient. Today, we are joined by SLPs and co-hosts of…

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March 16, 2026

Existential Psychotherapy Part 3: Isolation | How To Be Patient (Ep 55)

Existential Psychotherapy Part 3: Isolation | How To Be Patient (Ep 55)

Spoiler Alert! The key to not feeling isolated is to (wait for it) be around other people! Humans are naturally driven social creatures, but the ways in which we attempt to run from isolation become the problem. In this episode, we discuss how isolation is an ever-present fear, how existential…

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March 9, 2026

DBT Case Studies with Expert Dr. Kiki Fehling | How To be Patient (Ep 54)

DBT Case Studies with Expert Dr. Kiki Fehling | How To be Patient (Ep 54)

In the second part of our intro to DBT episodes, we welcome expert education and DBT clinician, Dr. Kiki Fehling. We talk about how Dr. Fehling found DBT, how her teaching made it to TikTok, and then get into cases about how to talk about DBT with patients and what…

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March 2, 2026

Going Viral as a First Year Med Student with Amine | How To Be Patient (Ep 53)

Going Viral as a First Year Med Student with Amine | How To Be Patient (Ep 53)

In this episode, I sit down with Amine (whyamino) a med student and content creator who recently went viral for his skits about engaging with patients from different cultural backgrounds. Due to pressure and complaints of “promoting stereotypes,” the content was eventually taken down. The audience feels some ambivalence about…

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Feb. 23, 2026

Existential Psychotherapy Part 2: Freedom | How To Be Patient (Ep 52)

Existential Psychotherapy Part 2: Freedom | How To Be Patient (Ep 52)

Today Margaret and I take on our own freedom in today’s episode, which is part 2 of a 4-part series on Existential Psychotherapy. The existential postulate that we are all ultimately free to make our own decisions (and therefore must live with those decisions) can be a source of distress…

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Feb. 16, 2026

DBT 101: Learning How to Regulate Your Emotions | How To Be Patient (Ep 51)

DBT 101: Learning How to Regulate Your Emotions | How To Be Patient (Ep 51)

In preparation for a more thorough DBT episode with experts in the field, Margaret leads us through a “DBT 101” covering the essentially axioms of dialectical behavioral therapy along with the pillars of mindfulness, emotional regulation, distress tolerance and interpersonal effectiveness. Join Patreon Here: https://www.patreon.com/c/howtobepatientpod If you’re ready to simplify…

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Feb. 9, 2026

How would bringing back long term psych care look? and is it a good idea? How To Be Patient (Ep 50)

How would bringing back long term psych care look? and is it a good idea? How To Be Patient (Ep 50)

In this episode, we explore the current political climate and the possibility of the return of institutionalized mental health care. Though this is not a political podcast (I think Preston says that 5 times) , all of medicine is political,and it’s important to discuss the overlap. Tune in to the…

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Feb. 2, 2026

Recognizing OCD and Comprehensive Treatment | How To Be Patient (EP 49)

Recognizing OCD and Comprehensive Treatment | How To Be Patient (EP 49)

In this episode, Margaret and Preston cover one of their most-requested clinical topics: diagnosing and treating Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, or OCD. Along the way, we review popular TikToks about OCD, including one Margaret made, and offer evidence-based approaches to treating OCD, along with a message of hope for anyone struggling…

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Jan. 26, 2026

Existential Psychotherapy Part 1: Death | How To Be Patient (Ep 48)

Existential Psychotherapy Part 1: Death | How To Be Patient (Ep 48)

Today, we try to tackle the easy and simple topic of death. Inspired by the writings of Irvin Yalom in Existential Psychotherapy, Preston attempts to describe the four maxims of existentialist theory in therapy and how they may apply to patients. Join Patreon Here: https://www.patreon.com/c/howtobepatientpod If you’re ready to simplify…

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Jan. 19, 2026

Learning as a Resident with Dr. Mark Mullen | How To Be Patient (Ep 47)

Learning as a Resident with Dr. Mark Mullen | How To Be Patient (Ep 47)

In this episode, Margaret and I are joined by the legendary host of the podcast Psychiatry Bootcamp, Dr. Mark Mullen. As a clerkship director of the psychiatry rotation himself, Dr. Mullen adds his insights as we discuss the “high yield” (if you will) tips to learning and transitioning into residency.…

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Jan. 12, 2026

Neuropsychological Assessments for Clinicians | How To Be Patient (Ep 46)

Neuropsychological Assessments for Clinicians | How To Be Patient (Ep 46)

In this episode, which could be titled “Neurocognitive Assessments for Silly, Cool, Fun People” (that’s us—we are the silly, cool, fun people), Margaret and I describe five neurocognitive domains often used in psychometric testing. We also cover the associated simple yet elegant tests you can do at the bedside. These…

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Jan. 5, 2026

Eating For Your Brain with Nutritional Psychiatrist Brooke Resche, MD | How To Be Patient (EP 45)

Eating For Your Brain with Nutritional Psychiatrist Brooke Resche, MD | How To Be Patient (EP 45)

On this episode of HBP, we interview Brooke Resche (CookwithDrBrooke on TikTok and Instagram) and answer some of your questions of how to feed yourself to help your brain, even when struggling with ADHD, Depression, Anxiety, or stress. We get into concrete strategies for each difficulty one might have with…

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Dec. 29, 2025

The Dementia Episode | How To Be Patient (EP 44)

The Dementia Episode | How To Be Patient (EP 44)

In this episode, Margaret and I do our best to define the elusive diagnosis of dementia. We describe what the actual clinical definition of the cognitive disability is, explore the most common types of diseases that can cause dementia, and how to pick up on them clinically, especially when they…

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Dec. 22, 2025

Concrete Self-Care in Hard Times with Amanda Stuckey Dodson | How To Be Patient (Ep 43)

Concrete Self-Care in Hard Times with Amanda Stuckey Dodson | How To Be Patient (Ep 43)

It’s one thing to think about optimal routines, and the internet is often very fixated on the “best”, but what about when you’re stressed, burnt out, or struggling with your mental health? On this episode, we have a conversation with clinical social worker and life skills specialist Amanda Stuckey Dodson…

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Dec. 15, 2025

Your Brain on AI: Interview with MIT Media Lab’s Nataliya Kosmyna | How To Be Patient (Ep 42)

Your Brain on AI: Interview with MIT Media Lab’s Nataliya Kosmyna | How To Be Patient (Ep 42)

Today, we present to you our first Journal Club episode, in which we feature a primary author of an important piece of research. Online, content supercedes context, and when it comes to emerging hypothesis around big topics–like AI–this loss of context can lead to polarizing views. Today, we are excited…

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Dec. 8, 2025

Food Fears, Myths, and Mental Health | How To Be Patient (Ep 41)

Food Fears, Myths, and Mental Health | How To Be Patient (Ep 41)

Welcome back for season 3! For our first episode, we have on a food scientist to discuss from the industry side food myths, which we combine with our own readings from the psychiatry literature. We touch on red dye 40, the minerals in the soil, and how to slow down…

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Nov. 10, 2025

What To Look For In A Psych Program | How To Be Patient (Season 2 Wrap)

What To Look For In A Psych Program | How To Be Patient  (Season 2 Wrap)

Margaret and I pivot into mentor mode a little in this episode, it’s targeted towards medical students and the vicissitudes of the match. We know these are tough times and we wanted to share some advice about what to look for in a psych program and how to pick a…

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Nov. 3, 2025

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy 101 | How To Be Patient (Ep 40)

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy 101 | How To Be Patient (Ep 40)

By popular demand, Margaret and Preston are back with another therapy episode. The topic this week? Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), a third wave behavioral therapy that Margaret happens to be trained in and love for her patients and her own life. In this episode we talk about the founder…

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Oct. 27, 2025

Trauma and Dissociation with Kristin Flanary (Lady Glaucomflecken)

Trauma and Dissociation with Kristin Flanary (Lady Glaucomflecken)

In this episode, we bring on Kristin Flanary, who is currently doing her own investigation into dissociations associated with trauma from both her own experience as a survivor and as an academic. We discuss the current media landscape of trauma and dissociation, the neurological mechanisms of dissociation, and therapeutic approaches…

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